Each person bears a fear which is special to him. One man fears a close space and another man fears drowning; each laughs at the other and calls him stupid. Thus fear is only a preference, to be counted the same as the preference for one woman or another, or mutton for pig, or cabbage for onion. Michael Crichton
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In the quote, Freud is making a point about how we form a sense of self by playing out familiar scenarios in our lives. We’ve all played out the scenario where we’re in a crowded room and another person comes up to us and tries to start a conversation. Inevitably, we respond with nervousness and maybe even hostility. Fortunately, Freud has the last laugh when he points out that this is merely a preference that can be changed. The key is to relax when you feel anxious and to let others come to you rather than doing the approaching yourself.

Source: Eaters Of The Dead

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